The feeling of being hurt is an emotional reaction to another person’s behavior or to a disturbing situation.
Abuse, abandonment, divorce, relationship issues, etc.
A habit is an addiction to someone or something.
Alcoholism, drugs, food, gambling, sex, shopping, smoking, etc.
Hangups are negative mental attitudes that are used to cope with people or adversity.
Anger, depression, fear, unforgiveness, jealousy, etc.